Is there
another animal like a dog? I think not. My connection with canines goes back to
my first memories. Mr. Krinkles, an English bulldog, was my first dog buddy. My mom tells me that she caught me in a pantry
with a big bag of kibble saying, “One for you, one for me.” That is when it
started. I was three.
There has
always been something comforting about a dog. Cats are OK, but expressing
emotion is not their strong suit. Exotic pets---(snakes, spiders, lizards, etc)
forget it. I don’t want any part of a ‘pet’ that can kill me. Fish? They are
for the big stainless fryer.
Truth is,
(with the possible exception of cats---OK cats are pretty cool) snakes, fish, hamsters, turtles, lizards,
Guiana Pigs, ETC are in the category of pets, but a dog…but a DOG…forget the
word ‘pet’.
The dog has
the warmth of a family member. He can smile AT you, talk TO you, play WITH you,
and be there FOR you. If you are not a dog person, you won’t get this: There is
a magical connection dogs have with humans. It is beyond comprehension and that
is what makes it so deep, so meaningful, and so great. I can look into the eyes
of a dog I have just met and see an old friend. Somehow he sees it too.
I have had
this connection with dogs for as long as I can remember. It reminds me many times of the great mystery
of life; a deep connection between creatures of incredibly different DNA
makeups but somehow the Lord saw fit to allow man and dog to come crashing into
each others lives to love and support one another like no other human and
animal relationship.
My dogs
provide ‘physical therapy’; that is, the very touch of their fur, the moist
lick of their tongues on my wrist, the sound of their groans as they roll over
in their sleep, and yes, even their many smells…this beautiful mixture of the senses…this great connection…it has kept
me at peace for many years.
People ask
my advice frequently about matters relating to dogs. I suppose if I could say
anything to make a terrific family dog, is it begins with ‘physical
therapy’. The same connection I had with Mr. Krinkles in the food pantry is the
same connection I have with a brand new foster dog. It is the touch, the sound,
the smell, the look…the connection of a man with a dog. Embrace it all.
My dad in the mid 1980's with Otto. A weimaraner that wandered up to our farm and stayed. Just another in the long line of lost, drop-offs, and strays that have found a home with my parents. We was one fine farm dog.
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